Explanation of Female Libido: What is it?
Of course, you know it takes two to “tango.” When it comes to wanting sex, women have desires too-just as much as men and sometimes even more than men. The female libido is a fancier term for “female sex drive.”
The female body works in similar ways as a man does in order to get stimulated. However, oftentimes a woman’s emotions are mixed in more than a man.
In other words, women are often less likely to enjoy uncomplicated sex with a partner because they have an easier time enjoying sex if they really like a person. Of course this is true of men too otherwise there would nobody that would marry for love any more. However, the point is that a woman’s body seems to be more of a mystery when it comes to addressing issues regarding increasing a woman’s sex drive.
From a Woman’s Point of View
The best way to understand the female libido is to ask a woman what turns her on from here point of view. Chances are it may be very similar to the way a man is turned on. However, in some ways it is very different.
In my personal opinion, women are less likely to become turned on like a light switch-unlike a man. However, it may depend upon age or stage in life, as well as individual body chemistry.
For instance, many women are hornier during pregnancy, before or after menstruation, or during ovulation. However, for some women the reverse may be true, particularly during pregnancy or right before or after having a period.
The affect of menopause on the female libido may be just as unpredictable as the above-mentioned scenarios. Some women may “want it” more during this time of life while others might want it less.
All in all, no matter how young or old a woman it often takes a woman more to “get into the mood” than it would a man. She is likely to be stimulated by intelligent or interesting conversation, and that conversation does not even have to be directly about sex or sexual topics.
For instance, a woman may be more turned on when a man is caressing her body carefully with his hand and opening up to her. Since he is putting himself more out on a limb in a deep in personal way and sharing more about himself she is more likely to respond in a sexual way.
A woman may also be more interested in sex with a man when they have enjoyed exciting philosophical or spiritual discussions. (Never mind that they say you should not talk about god, religion, politics, or other social issues with a partner. If you don’t talk about these things a relationship can get boring in my opinion.)
Another way a female libido is increased is if she is sharing a mutual hobby with a man she loves. For instances, many female musicians may get together with a man who also has that same passion.
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